The beauty of therapy is the acceptance of the entire person-- the real you, the genuine you, the raw you. All parts, however differentiated or integrated they might be. As you know, I am more than familiar with being an angry, emotionally immature, sarcastic ***** in the presence of my T. I have gone from thinking that nothing I do or say could hurt him to finding out that he is quite human and feels hurt and angry at me sometimes.... and through all that, he's still here. Your T is reacting beautifully because although your may not be consciously reaching out, he knows... he knows you need him so he's there before you can even ask. That 2 hour couples session sounds really stressful; I don't blame you for wondering what you were thinking... but you know that your T will be in your corner.