oh for crying out loud!! there are so many people they should actually be investigating why do they waste time so badly in investigating people who are only guilty of caring!?!?! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
im so sorry this is happening wisewoman. from what you posted it makes sense in retrospect that they are investigating you because people have gone insane about appropriate and inappropriate boundaries, outlawing all kinds of caring, important, comforting, soothing, loving touch in their paranoia. this is so wrong you are being subjected to this. i so hope they cop themselves on very quickly and realise what eejits they re being and how badly they have treated both you and the poor girl!