Being a caregiver is really difficult. My mom and aunt tried to share responsibilities with my grandmother. My grandmother lived with my aunt and my mom was around the corner....at any rate, I understand the difficulties you wouldo have to go through. And on top of that, a daughter to raise! This of course is a very stressful situation, as I'm sure you know and working with your pdoc and/or T will be key. I don't have any great advice, but I feel your pain and wish you are able to find relief sooner rather than later. Please take care