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Originally Posted by Ad Intra
T pointed out that I'm always hunched over in session. At the time I said it was because I'm tired, but I realized something later. I realized that I feel vulnerable in session and i feel safer hunched over. So far she's been kind towards me, but so have other people and they ended up hurting me, so I can't let my guard down too much. I can't allow myself to get attached.
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What does attached mean to you here? Because attachment is just about how we relate to another person.
I'm insecure attachment style. I still struggle 12yrs on with looking T in the eyes or even facing her. I ALWAYS begin the session by scanning get book shelves. I know if she adds or moves a book -T's always impressed with that lol - but the work still gets done.