I am sure I want to get married. I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years. I am just worried about how we would handle another rocky patch once we are married. I am dead set against divorce because I know we will have children one day and I know how divorce can affect children. It's been almost 3 years since we hit a rocky patch in our relationship and I think it was caused by the stress of his dad being sick for 2 weeks before he died and of us going back and forth between KY and IN for those 2 weeks plus I didn't have a very good job then so we were having to put all the expense from that trip on his credit card and I think it was stressing him out. I think me and him may just need to talk about how we would handle another rocky patch if one came our way. I like what one person said about maybe having some counsling.