I took care of my grandma for two years until I knew I had step away. I was much afraid I would hurt her. In the end of her time with us(my mom, dad, and I) my mom took time off work cuz I knew I couldnt handle it. She is in a facility now and I get to go back to being the doating granddaughter. She is my heart and soul. Im so glad we put her in a facility where she is cared for and we(the rest of the family) get to love on her and enjoy the time we have left with her. Obviously still stressful but in a very different way for POA's but I think we made the right choice.