I'm almost 50 now and haven't had any contact with the sister i was close with growing up for almost 20 years except for the settling of my mom's will. I have super memories of growing up with her as she was only two years younger than me and we were constant playmates. That was the happiest time of my life. She's different now, really angry with a hair-trigger temper and highly profane. I treasure my good memories and forget the rest.