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Originally Posted by SarahSweden
I think this depends on the therapist. I think a good T wouldnīt claim thereīs a good alliance if the client says there isnīt. I think a lot T:s protect themselves by claiming there is a good relationship and that the client just canīt feel it. I think it has to be a T who keeps updated on research and who is willing to learn new ways in relating to clients to create a good alliance.
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Totally agree. I kept telling my ex-T. that I didn't feel she cared or was reassuring. She told me it was my transference blocking me from seeing/feeling it. She told me that her other clients think she is which totally invalidated me. New T. says all that matters IS MY perception.
Thanks for sharing the video.