Great topic, my T is like yours Sister. He always says it is R Smith in the same way.

Do we have the same T's?

I call him Dr. with his last name, he's never told me I can call him by his first name. Isn't that odd, I wait for permission. I wonder since he says his first and last name, is that permission to call him by his first name?

I'm so weird. I have all these formal views. That will take some pondering and perhaps a discussion next week with T.