He was 18 when his sister, along with my father, sent him into my bedroom in our childhood home, his sister hoping he and I would be together. I know that is not normal. His sister and my father have been together for 30 years.

He was 20 when my father and I was in Asia with his sister, him and the whole family. I was 15.

Yesterday I talked with him one hour on phone and we talked about a lot.

I got the chance to ask him if he drugged me down, ( on FB ) he avoided answering, but out from what we wrote to each other on FB, its clear he knows what happened. I told him I couldnt remember and even this he could tell me and assure it was nice and wild

I wish he would show me he would care and when we spoke on phone he was very normal and empathic with me and was very sorry to hear that I had my father and his sister throw me out when I was 15, when we were back in Norway. I found out my father and his sister had lied to me when I was 15, saying that this man, her brother, who I am now talking to again, would come to Norway for two weeks visit, so I could not come home. It was a lie as her brother could tell me he never did visit. How could they lie and throw me out, they didnt want me there. Her brother is the first one who has show me any compassion and say sorry for what they did. He didnt know anything what had happened to me and he couldnt understand how my father and his sister could do this to me as he say family stay together and help each other. It was good for me to hear someone say to me they are sorry even it comes from him. He sounded very heartfelt and genuin.

Anyway, if I see him I will be very causious. I feel safe because he is in family of my fathers woman, and my father is in the family. If he harmed me both my father and his sister and all family would know. I am grown now and he cant just harm me.

I dont know if he is playing a game or not about coming to see me.

We both have been married. We are both divorced. He has 3 children who lives with him.