lonelyone, it seems that to make new friends, you must meet new people. And I have two things I do when I want to meet new people...join a club or take a class. Do you have any interests? Even if it is just joining a book club (a lot of libraries and book stores have them now), or taking a class at the local high school or YMCA...it puts you in the company of other people.

Good luck...as long as you are getting out and meeting people, you always have the chance of finding someone that you really click with.

*hugs*
mj