I wont pretend to understand, at all... But I would just like to leave you with a thought.


You've given him ample chance to admit to what he did, to apologize for what he did, to even make excuses for what he did, but he hasn't. He has avoided the issue.


You think you may get closure out of meeting with him, but it probably wont be the type of closure you seek, and wont be wrapped up with a neat pretty little bow.


What if he responds in an undesirable manner?


How will you react, will that re-traumatize you?


Think about how this will affect you when it does not go according to plan, before you decide to go.