Hello xXFiyaXx: You know... sometimes, I think, those of us who struggle with mental health issues ourselves have a tendency to forget that those around us may have their own issues... whether or not they rise to the level of requiring treatment. It sounds to me as though perhaps your mom has her own issues... casting herself as the victim. Perhaps her own issues aren't serious enough to require treatment. They're just the same sort of everyday problems everyone struggles with. But, under any circumstances, you are not responsible for them & it's not your job to fix it. As long as everyone in the household is doing their fair share, from my perspective at least, it is up to your mom to deal with how she chooses to perceive things. At least these are my thoughts...