I'm not religious (unless I'm full on manic), but the one thing about religion I agree with and find most helpful is the support, friendships and COMMUNITY it can provide. People coming together to think about goodness, kindness and caring about others is a wonderful thing. I say, try out a few churches if nessessary! Since you don't sound tied down to any specific form, you have lots of options. It's about the people you meet, not the denomination. If you don't click with the people at the first place, try another. Good luck in your search.