He was very pissed that my therapist fairly demanded that I be evaluated without consulting him first; he felt at least he'd have time to prepare. I explained that I am her client and contacting him wasn't necessarily expected. She even said as I was trying to make excuses about why I couldn't do IOP, mostly how put out my family will become. My therapist's response was that they will "figure it out" and that this mandatory in her mind. And so it was.