I've experienced intense erotic transference with my T, it's been painful to work through. It still occurs but it's much better now, and it's been helpful to understand my process and the patterns I impose on my relationships with others, and my expectations of my value in relationships (mostly sexual).

My maternal transference is similar to ThisWayOut in that I didn't want T to be my Mum etc...but when we discuss issues from the past, I think she will react the same way. I expect her to be annoyed with me, to think I'm making a fuss, being selfish, that I should put her needs first....T named the transference and said it may help to know it is that. I wish she would push through more of her own opinion though.