10 weeks until I marry the man I met online 6.5 years ago. Its harder for men to do the online dating in general I think. If she does reply stick to messaging about those commonalities mostly sprinkled with light things about you asking the majority of questions towards her. Good luck. It is possible. Keep in mind that women are fickle lol. Dont take it personally if she doesnt respond. Keep trying. Messaging becomes easier.