In my opinion women working is not what is wrong with the world. A man and woman,or whatever type of partnership you have should be supportive. Finances, division of housework(or not), starting a family,etc. are things that should be discussed and agreed upon together. Expectations can be voiced but both parties may have to compromise. These things need to be revisited when your lives change. Loss of finances, addition of children, health setbacks, death of a loved one may call for a new agreement.