I do think there is some confusion amongst people regarding integration.

Integration is about becoming aware of all the parts. Becoming co-conscious. It does NOT mean losing any of the parts. None of the parts disappear! In fact you become more of a person rather than being less.

True integation is where all the parts have a go. ie. One part doesn't run the whole show all the time.

I am not fully integrated, and because of what we all have been through probably never will be. I'm ok with that. All the parts are special and I celebrate the fact that this multiplicity is what helped me to survive.