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Originally Posted by tearsinabottle
Saturday I visited my friend downstairs, I let this man know as I didnt know when he would be on FB. When back in at my apartement I asked him how his evening had been, he said "bad", I asked why and he said because I was not there..he was not angry, only joking a bit I think..I said sorry..we both said lol
If he felt so bad, then why he is ignoring me. It feels like I have done something wrong to make him ignore me.
He gave me his phone nr, email address and stuff, and then nothing. I still have hope he calls, but my hope is starting to vanish.
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Then he is an even emptier person than I thought. You don't exist just to amuse him, you're not a clown! When I was dating, if my girlfriend was out with friends, I'd go to the gym, go watch a movie, go out with friends, you know, have fun. Because one of the key to live an happy life is to make your own happiness. You can't rely on others because they can't always be there for you and if they can't and you can't make your own happiness, you'll be sad and all desoriented. Using others to fill a void in ourselves is a recipe for disaster. That's why some people survive break-ups and find someone in a matter of days and some people fall into depression.
You did nothing wrong, he was just annoyed that you were not there to amuse him, forcing him to do nothing in his miserable life and I say, good for him! You don't owe him anything and he has A LOT of work to do if he wants to one day, live an happy life, living REAL love relationships.