welcome brent, I am glad you found somewhere to safely vent. I am sorry your situation is not an easy one, or a manageable one. It sounds like a terrible turn of events. I hope coming here helps you. It has helped me lots. Welcome aboard.

A word of advice though. Be careful putting to much information out there for the public forums to see. You name, age, b day, and location make you an easy target if someone wanted to be vindictive. A past spouse, an angry co worker, even a person who becomes less then pleasant and friendly here. If it is at all possible you may want to go back into your original post and edit those things out.