Ye. I have erotic transference with my female T (I am a lesbian). I have told her I have a crush on her and we discussed my transference with her.

It's been helping my sessions a lot actually. I am really grateful how it's improve the sessions and how well she took it and has been working with me.

I do agree, the word transference is an odd word to say to your T. In context I have said 'my crush on you' or something similar.