I am very attached to my T. At first it was scary and made me feel bad. I wrote him a letter but we never talked about it nor did he comment on my note. I felt relieved yet I wish he would have said something. He didn't treat me differently thank goodness. It did ease up I still feel attachment but in a more clear way, meaning I understand it now and don't feel shamed by it. He is very professional. No hugging or hand holding. He comforts with words and patience something I have never experienced. I guess the fact that he didn't get all weird about my feelings for him made me feel safe and relaxed. I care for and respect him but not intuit infatuated I need to see him kind of way anymore.