I am glad you said not all Ts present themselves in that way because mine has openly admitted in the past that she can't see a way to help me and in another session that she is human, using an example of having said something she shouldn't have to her daughters but explaining that it is how she dealt with this afterwards that mattered.

Her admitting that she didn't know how best to help me opened the door to me telling her how I saw this and what I believed would help.