It's only been 2 months. I really do like him, he's very kind and has a no BS way of doing things. I got very attached very quickly which freaked me out ... And we had a bad EMDR session off the top. Now it appears I am so controlling that I can't even create a "safe place" without screwing that up! (Going on a rant here - it was not a good session today) I just feel like I am doing everything wrong when I go ... And try so hard to make sure I say the right things. I know I am a controlling person ... I just don't know how to stop. I can tell he is getting frustrated with me. I hate this ... I felt so positive last week and now I just feel like crap and so pissed off.