It really sounds like you are going to do what you probably had in mind to do when you began this thread. That's your right and it's perfectly fine. But geez... it's been 28 years. What is the point? You were fifteen years old and he was eighteen,,, or twenty? So that would make you about 43 and he 46 or 48? Can I ask you a question? What have you been doing the last 28 years? What could you possibly expect from this?