thanks, i've looked through some of the sites over the years but just never attempted to contact anyone because of before stated reasons

but this site seems cool because it has alot of things to match yourself with someone, can see what they think about different things if they answer questions and blablabla

this girl just answered practically everything the same way i did so i had to try
even the few things that she answered different were really indifferent - i didnt think a girl existed like that

would be nice to get to know her though, would be a cool friend if nothing else - a shame that there is no real way i could just tell her i just wanna hang out or whatever - cause people probably dont believe anything anyone says on them sites - atleast the guys - if i was a girl i would be skittish too because of all the douche bags