My fiancée and I are a bit similar like what you described . He is ambitious career wise but other than that he is go with the flow person while I am very type A and go go go at all times. I always went for type A men and it is nice finally to be with someone who isn't always on a go.
We balance each other. I push him and he slows me down. It works out. Find the balance

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