I'm sorry if you misunderstood me, cas. My only point was that unless there is some proof, or a victim or witness to testify, the law can do nothing. You are absolutely right that there is high likelihood that this person is still abusing. It is a sad fact in our society, though, that if the family will do nothing, it can be difficult or impossible to bring the abuser to justice.

I in no way meant to imply that flier's feelings are not valid...I am just pointing out the reality of trying to report someone for abuse without having witnessed the abuse yourself.

Again, I apologize to both you and flier if my original reply was not clear.

mj