Again, it sounds like your psychiatrist really doesn't want to function as your therapist; he seems to just want to deal with the med end of your treatment (which is what the vast majority of psychiatrists do anymore). Perhaps you need to find a regular therapist to work with regularly and that therapist may be able to work with you on your boundary issues. Your current psychiatrist (who pretty clearly doesn't intend to be your therapist) is telling you (unfortunately too indirectly) to find a therapist other than him.