i have a dislike of fitting people into boxes all the stuff going round about differences between the sexes imho its just a way to sell books. i had a good chat with a friend who is a psychiatrist about this sort of stuff he agreed with me if you want to find someone 'sorted'go down your local cemetery ,a bit harsh ,but so true, as long as were alive we will have to look at ourseves how we react ,interact a total minefield ,we are far too complicated