Hello lovemeformexo: Well... the obvious answer here is, at 27, it's time to get out on your own. As long as you continue to live with your mother, it's likely this is going to continue to be a problem. Many years ago, I had relationship problems with my mother. I was an only child & she clung to me even after I had moved out & was on my own. As it turned out, I ended up moving out of state to go to school & never moved back. That took care of it. Of course, if you don't have the ability and / or the resources to be out on your own, then that's not an option for you.

Beyond that I think the best thing you can perhaps do is to try to establish some boundaries with her. You mentioned you live with your parents. So I presume your dad is in the home too? Would it be possible for you to enlist your dad in an effort to establish some "guidelines" regarding what you are & aren't comfortable with at this point? The reality may be that as long as you live in your parents' home, you may simply not be able to get out from underneath this entirely. But perhaps you can establish some boundaries, or guidelines, that will give you at least a bit more freedom. Good luck!