i try to avoid any of those "expectations"
because people have created such stereotypes that are just ridiculous...

like guys cant have emotions and are supposed to be solid and tough, never cry, blablabla...

i know for one that i am 100% guy, i am 100% straight and i still have emotions, i cry, i feel sad, i have a feminine side

its all bologna - a woman has a masculine side as well as a man has a feminine side...
dont adhere to those stereotypes