You certainly are in a fix. Do you have any close friends? make it two or three nights out with them to alleviate being around them at the house 24/7. Or have them come over and visit with just you. It is the only way is to use the boundaries in your living space as your own and capitalize on it by entertaining in your space your friends and enjoying yourself. And certainly talk about this with your counselor how you can feel safer at home withou your mother butting in (((hugs))) good luck and tc