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Originally Posted by BudFox
I acknowledged that was inappropriate language. Why are you troubled by this post but not the ones I was replying to, which are insulting and attacking? Are we going to play games here or be honest with each other?
I post sometimes provocative and inflammatory things about the therapy system. But not about people here (I hope I haven't). I accept that there will be blowback. But there have been plenty of times where the responses have crossed the line, including this thread. Hostility toward the few posters here who are critical of therapy is consistent but rarely acknowledged.
Anyone here could find themselves on the outside looking in. Serious betrayal in therapy is paradigm-setting stuff. I wonder what others here would do if in the middle of intense transference, attachment, vulnerability, crisis, etc your T bailed on you? Perhaps you'd come here and rage about it too?
An quote about PTSD and extreme abandonment fears, an ironic statement on the absurdity abandonment in therapy:
"The therapeutic alliance is a contract between patient and therapist, which provides a safe environment where abandonment is not an option."
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I am not troubled by that post at all. I was just replying to you. You said someone's post was hostile and I went back and checked and noticed it was a reply to yours.
What would I do if my t did something inappropriate? Or terminated me all of a sudden without rhyme or reason and no referral and no warning and while I am in crisis? Sure I'd come here and talk and vent about it! I complained that my t answered phone calls during my session! No one ever said there shouldn't be any sharing of bad experiences! Plenty of posters have bad experiences and come vent here and people are supportive. I don't see anyone objecting to that. I am livid when people are abused and mistreated by a therapist or by anyone in fact.