It sounds like this person is your anchor. but, she has a boyfriend and the friendship you have can be a thin line . the bf might not feel comfortable with so much attention focused on you, the friend. also, as it tends to happen some of our stuff might possibly get discusses to the bf and that can create issues. have you thought of reaching out elsewhere? or maybe not reveal too much until you know what is what with your friend and the whole confidence situation? have you talked to her about it?