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Originally Posted by divine1966
You are repeatedly endangering yourself. I remember you were willingly going into stranger's car [emoji33]just because he looked handsome or something and now you are inviting a rapist to stay in your house. Are you not concerned about safety?
I wanted to add that if you decided to meet with him no matter what, he can rent a hotel room. Even if he isn't dangerous there is no need to have strangers at your house over night. You haven't spoken for 28 years and who knows what he is up to
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Yes he could have rented a hotel room, but I said that yes its ok he stay here. I did get into that strangers car because he continued insisting to drive me down to the store which was 2 minutes walk away. I clearly was not able to keep boundaries back then. I have ran into him twice after that day and those times I said "no, its ok, I walk home" as he again wanted to drive me to my home. My home and store are 100 meters apart. Both times he wanted drive me but I didnt go into his car again and stood firm in my boundaries and just walk away fast. Not wanting to get any hassle talking with him.
I think I can garantee that things will be alright during his visit. I do not fear him as he is in the family. He visits my father and his woman and all ofthem have contact. It would be really foolish of this grown man to risk going to jail, lose his kids and all.
I know its hard to see this from the outside despite the fact what happen 28 years ago. I would be worried too if I was on the outside looking in to another life and in such circumstances. Maybe I see it a little different and this is why I dont fear him.