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Do you think maybe your T. is 'misattuned' to how deep and how important some things are? and I dont mean how important they are to you, I mean actually IMPORTANT?

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i don't understand what you mean by this... can you explain?

try reading about schema therapy... not that it would be the best choice for you, i don't know, but it might help you figure out some of your own patterns. i have found the reading quite enlightening and somewhat depressing as i realize the things i do to sabotage myself.

what type of T's were you seeing? It might be a matter of the wrong approach for you as well.

i don't mind talking some... but i find it hard to make my thoughts cohesive.