I agree Wandering Soul. Most of the girls I lust over, I wouldn't have as a girlfriend, got not interest in this type of girl but I'm facing a wall right now and so far, I haven't found the answer that will allow me to break through this blockade. You see, I'm a nice guy and haven't got a girlfriend in a long time. I read a book about how alpha males got all the girls they wanted but one of my most important mantra in life, is ''don't try to be someone else, be yourself'' so how am I supposed to get a girlfriend if it didn't work during the last 14 years, being myself?

I'm blocked by this inner paradox and I'm tethered to my desk, like some sort of animal.