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Originally Posted by bluebicycle
Now that I think of it, I *have* fantasized about having a friendship with my therapist. He likes many of the same things I do, and it's rare for me to come across someone like that. I've only ever come across 1 other person like that, and he was a complete weirdo. (He would put his hands over his mouth and make weird hissing sounds while whispering stuff to himself. I wondered why he did it, so I would ask, "Did you say something? Sorry, I didn't catch that." Then he'd stop the weird whispering and hissing. I think it was a compulsion... but he also followed me around everywhere, so that was pretty weird.)
Have you ever fantasized about a friendship?
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Not that I can think of. Pretty much all, if not most of my pdocs have been older males, so that would be weird. As far as a friendship with my T...my new one is probably slightly older than me, but she is very helpful in a therapist kind of way, but not in a let's be friends kind of way (I hope that made sense). I don't really know anything about her, when I go to my sessions, I talk, and talk, and talk...
My last one was an older male, but his psychodynamic therapy just wasn't working for me. I work better with some good 'ol CBT, and so I think this will be better.