Welcome to PC

I don't really know what to say - everyone is different and have their own preferences. But I know if I was your daughter I would just want everything to be open, honest, upfront, and for all of me to be loved and understood - even the ratty bits of me. I would love to have people around me who acknowledged what was going on, and who talked to the different bits of me as if they were different, rather than pretending nothing was going on.