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Originally Posted by Cinnamon_Stick
I did not mean that your T's feelings would change or that she doesn't love you, I was just pointing out that the word love in therapy is a beautiful thing and I am glad you feel it but it makes the goodbye harder.
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But I'm thinking love in therapy doesn't have to make the goodbye harder. The love is something you can always have inside if you.
[QUOTE=monalisasmile;4989568]Hi Rainbow,
I am so glad you had this healing moment in your therapy, sounds very reassuring and comforting. I can understand the wondering about feeling sad after it. This is a huge thing for you. You have wanted this for a long tine and now that she has said " I love you" she is present and available in a new way and that's scary since she has been unavailable in this sense. Of course it would stir up emotions, sadness and uncertainty because in a way the boundaries have changed and the relationship. You have always tested the boundaries, checking ts Facebook, asking about her private life, driving by her house! Does Sanyo if this resonate Rainbow?
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Maybe. T has been unavailable, and that's the kind of person I'm drawn to. Her saying straight out "I love you" makes my interest/excitement level decrease.