sheesh, sabby, that was my complaint a year ago, when i had to go to the e.r. for a migraine, which messed me up good. the docs and nurses were absolutely lacking in compassion, as i was feeling so vulnerable to the bone. it was a horrible experience that messed me up so bad, which my pdoc had to put me on a medication to settle down the freaky-ness of that experience. usually, i'm not afraid, but i can't imagine putting myself in that situation again. but, we don't have a choice when we have a medical emergency..... i'm sorry that you and your daughter had to go through that. i totally understand what that was like. i pray for you both.