Hello Anglo: The Skeezyks' personal opinion is that pretty-much no one really wants advice, or help. They say they do. But the reality is they really don't. They ask for advice &, when you give it, they then proceed to enumerate all of the reasons why the advice you offered was wrong or inappropriate, or whatever. I have encountered this sufficiently, here on PC, that I typically no longer offer advice or suggestions even if someone asks for it...