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Old Apr 01, 2016, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted by unaluna View Post
Part of what IS controlled on PC is that it is supposed to be a safe place, no perps allowed, only supportive posts. That is a given.

Why i find many of "the other side's" posts upsetting is that they tend to sound like my perps - saying there is no other way, "those people" just want to take advantage of you, stay with the devil you know.

This chicken is trying to cross the road to the other side. I thought this website was the road to the other side. Im not really interested in all the clucking from those who insist on staying in the henhouse!
Actually -
I think more it is people saying there are other ways to cross the road than just by therapy and that therapy is not the best way for every person to cross the road even if it is a good way for someone else. There are more roads to the other side than just one.

If I was going to characterize something as the clucking hen house sort of
thing, it would more be the clucking about how one should keep doing therapy rather than strike out in another way to cross the road when therapy does not seem to be a good fit or idea for someone.
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