What do you mean by you feel the need to still help her? It's one thing to feel you have to help your T in some way-- lots of us get those feelings-- but it sounds as though you really did "help" her and now you are feeling some sort of obligation or even fear. You are giving her money? Are you aware of your rights as a patient? There are places that you can turn, things you can do to report her. Please tell us more if you can... maybe we can help.