Re-reading, had some thoughts. The impetus for her wanting to increase the Lamictal was to help with a low level depression, right? You'd adjusted the Geodon dose and were stabilizing. She may not have been happy about it, but she already knows the Geodon adjustment was made. In your posts, there is mention of both stabilizing and of hypo. In either of those cases, the initial reason for her raising the Lamictal (for the depression) is no longer a factor. So here is the question (apologies if I've missed this): Has she changed her strategy to now looking for the Lamictal to keep a lid on hypo?

(My line of reasoning hinges on that question so I want to make sure I'm not missing something and barking up the wrong tree. )