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Originally Posted by Anglo
Thank you, I am so much like you. I don't take my own advice especially when it comes to my sister. I try and advise her, go to the doctor. Tell them the truth, ask to see a T, be honest. My sister instead goes to the doctor and for whatever reason, the doctor won't refer her to see a T, they gave her anti-depressants and left her to it. I know this sounds horrible but sometimes I feel like there's jealousy over my treatment and healing because she doesn't have a T and I do. She triggers me in the sense that she knows I have anorexia and she'll tell me that I've put on weight and look better with a fuller face and wider hips. With the PTSD she'll ask me about an event in my past and the majority of the time I'll have a flashback or blackout. I've asked her not to, but she does anyway.
My T told me to stay away from her, but she's my sister and I love my nieces and nephews, I don't want to distance myself but I know a little bit of distance wouldn't hurt.
I try and tell my sister how I got a T, I was honest and I told the doctor I won't survive on my own anymore. A few weeks later I had a permanent T. That's all I want for my sister is someone would is in their right mind state who can help her. I'm frustrated because there's nothing I can do, and going around in circles is emotionally damaging me. I should take my T's advice and give myself some breathing space.
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Yeah. My sister sees a psychiatrist, but she doesn't really talk to him, which defeats the whole point. I see a psychologist, and it is hard to talk, but I write things down that he reads and then we talk about it. I just want to get better. When I get in a bad fight with my brother or sister, they like to bring up my so called OCD to make me upset. I hate it enough. Bringing it up makes me feel awful! Trust me. You aren't alone in this! Just stay on track. As every tells me, even though I don't use this myself, just focus on yourself before anyone else until you get better. We people are I'm a fragile state, and we can't afford to be pushed off track. Just hang in there! Try to still hang out with you niece and nephews but at the same time distance yourself from what your sister says. Just filter it somewhere. Maybe that will help.
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There are so many things wrong with me, and sometimes I believe there is more than what is diagnosed. I fear never healing, being left alone to crawl this heartless, cruel world. I hate myself so much, and sometimes, as much as I hate them, all I really want is a heartfelt hug. Will I ever make it through this thing called life? Or will I drown in the darkest depths of the ocean? Only time can tell. As for now, I just hide and I fear. This
is, and will always be my life.