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Originally Posted by Lazarus16
Those famous dating websites, I have accounts on many of them, yet, each time a cute girl wants to talk to me and I reply, I never hear of her again!  Kind of illogical, if you ask me, either you want to talk to me or you don't but why do you do the opposite of what you really want, so illogical.
I once talked a lot with a girl, turns out she really wanted us to go for a walk, her only interest seemed to find someone to distract her while she took walks to lose weight (she wasn't huge, had maybe 10 pounds to lose, it was kind of hot) but after a while of turning in circle and her only wanting to go for a walk, I told her ''I'm not your pet''.  HAHAHAHA!! I mean, I could see from miles away that our relationship would be dysfunctional. I only liked her for her body and she only saw me as a pet. lol
Today, I still have accounts on those dating websites but I'm thinking of removing all informations about my wealth. Many girls would me ''So you're an engineer, you must be rich?'' and I'd say ''Yeah but I'm no sugar daddy  '' then no reply.  I hate it, I want a deep relationship, not just being a father to young women that think they can get anything they want in exchange of sex. It offends me, like, I feel as if I was paying for prostitutes. To me, sex should come naturally, out of love, it should be deep and we should live incredible feelings. It shouldn't look as if it was a business.
I might be mistaken but many times, I wish I could find a shy girl, looks cute but doesn't have a pornstar body and I wouldn't even care! Shy girls give me the feeling of often being less material girls, you can identify yourself to them on a more deep level. They seem more genuine and more lovey-dovey. lol I miss the affection of teenage relationships... Sadly, I have yet to find a SINGLE shy girl on ANY dating website.
Anyone know where to find this rare breed of girls? I feel like as if I was looking for the legendaries unicorns! |
I feel like it's just a game of numbers with these sites or that sometimes we all have some character flaw that we may be aware or not aware of and that's why we are all there...online. the same 20 people :/
I don't know where you find those girls, coffee shop? museum? fitness class? I guess it also depends where you live. I live in a town of about 150k people.. can't find anyone. but the closest metro area is San Francisco ... that place you can bump into your ideal person .. so many people there. I guess datingg is like real estate: location, location, location.
it's probably a good idea to hide that career title. though I'm not sure how you could describe your occupation. many women want to find that out ASAP. i tend to ask if they are employed period.. not for financial opportunity but because I've given a chance to the guys that don't have one or claim they're transitioning and then i foot the bill for everything or we literally take walks or watch movies bc he can't or doesn't want to cover his 1/2 of the recreation expense... tired of that.
I guess you could always say I have a career and I love it?