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Old Apr 02, 2016, 04:29 PM
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I'm in a similar spot. I did a lot of research in the years when nothing much was working and I like the theory of Heinz Kohut and especially his idea of the three poles/functions on which the development of a sense of self depend. But how to actually use those ideas? My current T doesn't know much about Kohut although she did go to see a consultant when we were stuck the last time. I'm also in the midst of a huge negative transference, I think. I had dissociated from a lot of negativity and that may just be reintegrating. So maybe that really means that if/when I'm done with this, then I really will be done. Time will tell.
I think Kohut is a more supportive type of dynamic therapy that involves mirroring the client. I like Kohut's stuff too.

I just got off the phone with a therapist, the only one who hasn't scared me!
Looking through the therapists on Psychology Today etc was very anxiety provoking. I just couldn't see myself with 99% of the Ts there. But this one seems like a gem. She specializes in AEDP: The Trauma Center at JRI

Nothing about it really stands out to me, but I felt like trying it after she told me it takes the 'only the good stuff' out of psychoanalytic therapy.